Over the past few weeks, we have unfortunately been experiences a recurrence of Matt's back issues. I say "we" have been experiencing it, because it really does affect the entire family. Back in 1999, Matt was helping a friend move a bookcase and hurt his back. It caused a herniated disc and severe sciatic pain. The problem was in his back, but the pain was all in his leg. He had a really hard time walking, and often had to use a cane. After several months of various treatments that didn't work, Matt finally had surgery in October of that year. The surgery was a miracle. Matt could barely walk without help when we got to the hospital that day, and an hour after leaving the operating room, he was going up and down stairs on his own and feeling great. The doctors warned us that the surgery was not a lifetime cure, and that Matt might have problems with his back again in the future.
Well, my friends: the future is now!
It was about 3 weeks ago that Matt started feeling sciatic pain. It's gotten progressively worse. The doctors put him on pain medication and told him to rest, but so far his condition is not improving. Sadly, it's the opposite. In fact, on Saturday Matt was in so much pain he couldn't walk at all. He's also on some seriously heavy medications for pain, which make him a little loopy. When he's really doped up, he almost can't carry on a conversation because he loses his train of thought so easily. Considering he can't walk, can barely stand to sit up, and practically a zombie because of the medication, he can't work. We're not sure when exactly he'll be able to go back, or what this will mean for us financially. We just bought a house, after all. So we really can't afford to be on one income right now. But we're just taking things one step at a time. No need to panic.
Matt is going to call today to schedule an MRI so we can find out exactly what's going on with his back. Once we can see what's going on, we can find out more treatment options, or maybe schedule another surgery. We just have to wait and see. In the meantime, we'd appreciate all the prayers and good vibes you can spare!
4 comments:
back injuries just plain ol' suck. i know how much they physically hurt, but the havoc they wreak on the family comes in a VERY close second. (and if no one else was around, i might even say it's harder on US than THEM!)
do you guys have a heating pad? that might help some. and seriously, skip anyone else and go see dr. june sekito. www.sekitochiro.com she offers a cash discount, which helps a bit. we used to drive down from los angeles to see her, that's how little trust i have in most other people when it comes to our bodies.
anyway, hang in there, mama! let us know what you need!
I really do hope his condition improves without surgery and that he isn't bedridden for very long. It's such a scary time to be without a paycheck. He should be eligible for State Disabiity, but its still only 60% of his income. I don't suppose he could work from home at all?
Man, you have had a chaotic year, haven't you? I recommend a movie night out with the girls and chocolate. Lots of chocolate.
I am so sorry!! Back pain is no fun for anyone. I will send lots of good thoughts and prayers your way. Hang in there!!
I hope things get better for your hubby.
I just happened to see check my listing of who checks my blog and there is a link to your blog...didnt know you had one. Thrilled that you do!!!
Yeah for mommy bloggers!
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